SECRETS TO BE POPULAR IN ANY GROUP

SECRETS TO BE POPULAR IN ANY GROUP

Have you ever thought to become the more popular and welcomed by people in your community or business circles?

The secret is in the charming you have in every contact with others.

The deepest human need is the desire to feel significant. When you go through life building self-confidence and making other people feel important and valuable, they sure will like you.

If you are in business, becoming a charming person, making others feel important, will help you in every business situation.

How to be charming and so, popular in any group:

·         Smile in every situation. It expresses unconditional positive regard. I smile always. It is so a powerful technique.

·         Say “thank you” early and frequently. When you say it, you make people feel so important and happy, raise their self-esteem and increase their desire to help you.

·         Give genuine compliments. I have already talked about this great Technique. On every occasion you appreciate the possessions, traits or accomplishments of others, they inevitably feel more important and valuable! As Abraham Lincoln said, “Everybody likes a compliment”.

·          Give praise and approval often. When you praise your spouse and children, your staff and co-workers, your customers and suppliers, you make them feel more important and cause them to see you as “charming”

·         Give them your full attention. Whenever you listen closely to another person when he is talking, his self-esteem goes up.

Make people feel valuable and special is the BIG SECRET.

Soon, almost without effort on your part, every person will be talking about “what a charming soul you are”.

Emanuele Battista